Update on my personality

This is a refresher update for all friends and family so they will not forget that I have and will continue to have my own personality.

People who love astrology, don't forget that I am a very typical Gemini. I am smart, maybe not in study but definitely street. I have a strong personality if not two or more strong personalities. I can be both Devilish and Angelic depending on the situation that requires them.

I do have a temper although I have more control over them now and it is harder to make me really angry then it is 5 yrs ago. I will tolerate people I love but will not tolerate people who I deem not deserving. When I'm angry, everyone will know. Especially the one that makes me angry. You should ask my younger sister how angry I can be.

I do not live in the castle in the clouds. Logic, realistic and truth is what I live in and for. Although I like to be a perfectionist in many things I do, I am very logical and realistic on what I should do. Thus if I cannot achieve my objective perfectly, I'm still okie if I acheive my objective logically and realistically.

I have good People relationship skills as I love to talk to people, adsorb and understand all their knowledges. I also believes people have to behaves differently and love the challenge of meeting new people with new thinking. I love to understands people and try to work with them and not against them, as we all have different skills and have to work together to have really gd results.

The things I wrote abt myself in friendster which many of my friends agrees on is:
"I'm someone who u may hate n love at the same
time...especially true for some of my friends...wahahaha
Look sleepy all the time, unless the topic of interest is
wat I like"

I am a very normal, down to earth and sometimes innocent looking girl with a very weird thinking. People always got fooled by me when they judge me by the look, I didn't do it purposely but it always happen. People who thinks that I'm conservative and traditional in thinking always get the biggest shock.

Heartless is what some of my friends deem me, in terms of how I handle my past relationship. I'm just doing what I've been doin, drawing a line. I love my family, I love my BF, I love my friends...but if all ranks together I love myself the most.

I love myself so much that some of my friends thinks that it is a kind of illness. hahaha... But just because I love myself, I do not cheat myself, pretend to myself, hurt myself. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, except for the love of bitting things including my hands....:P. If I found myself in a situation that hurts me alot and I really couldn't find ways to stop hurting myself and make myself real unhappy then the only way for me is to walk away from the hurt. That includes...job...hobby...and relationship. If I've tried and failed after a few attempts to find a way ard the hurt while keeping the situation, I will just eliminates it from my life. You can call me a coward for running away, but if that is the only way to save myself then I will.

I can't be control and don't like to be control by others, no one can. Except now maybe my elder sister whom hav certain degree of control over me from young...by one way or another and my younger sister who love to excercise guilt control on me to make me do something for her or give her something. Just because they are my sisters and I love them very much and I choose to give them the right as I know they love me too and will do anything for me even if they don't think it is right.
The one whom have full control over myself is me, anyone else whom believes in having the ability to control me can get out of their illusion now. Having the ability to put an idea into my head does not mean that you have the control. Having the ability to make me feel that you are important to me does not put the control in your hands.
A friend once told me that if someone trys to control me, I'll probably turn and run. haha....hmm...maybe it is true.

Love my freedom, this probably adds on to the reason why I don't like to be control. As freedom for me is a very impt thing. Not talking abt freedom to kill...but freedom to think and act on the things that I love to do.

I always felt trapped in , caged up and burden down... flying is what I want to do. Freedom is what I seeks, truth is in the horizon.

Principles and Rules of Mine

This is a post to show all the people I know about what I believes in, this is the set of 'rules and principles' that I've modified and try to perfect every yr when I review it. I uses these rules to improves myself as an unique individual, what I am now is how I want to be. There are many sources of influences throughout the life that I've lived that help me to decide how to modifly them. I do not live in anyone's shadow nor think that I'm a perfect person, the task of being a better person as I deem is ongoing probably till I die.

So here goes the 'Principles and Rules':

1. Never try to shape someone into the type of person that I want.
Reasons are, I don't like people who trys to force me to change and I believes very much in individuality. If I dislike the person's action against certain things I will voice out my unhappiness... but it is for them to go and think abt if I am correct and there is a need to change. They might not think that I am right and maybe in some sense I'm wrong.
When different types of people get together, isn't it more happening and exciting in the amt of things u can learn from each others? Isn't it boring if all the people I meet become the same type of person I want?

2. Everyone have their own set of principles and rules that they lives with.
I have my own sets of principles and rules too... many thinks that they are not applicable at all but it is my own. I thought thru it before setting them, u can tell me why they are not gd but I will only make changes when I see that you are right. Therefore knowing that each of us have a different set of principles and rules that they adhere to, I also try to understand people's action by thinking of what influences their action and not classifly them purely base on their action.

3. Never look down on someone.
I don't like the feeling of people looking down on me due to my background, my education level, the path I choose, my pay, my friends and my family. Therefore, as I believes in treating others the same why you want to be treated I never look down on anyone. I know that there are people who do that to me, and although I don't like it I still accept it.
There are people who does that to many people they meet but they are very angry when someone else does the same thing to them. They are the type of people who never do reflection on themselves, as they thinks that they are the best. Unless they can accept that there are people who do the same thing to them as there are no perfect man, then they shouldn't do it.
There are beauty in everyone. Maybe he does not hold a great profession or have alot of money but he has the beauty of a patriot and is the one that will stand infront of their family when something serious happen. Maybe she is just a cleaner who don't even know how to speak English, but she is polite to everyone she meet and never yell at anyone. Maybe he is a very bad father, but he is a very good business man (maybe he just don't know how to be a gd father).

4. Never do something to anyone that you don't like to be done to.
I don't like people who breaks promises to me, thats why I try not to break promises unless something really more important that I need to attend to came up. If I really have to do that, I'll make sure the person that I'm goin to break promise to understand that I didn't really want to do that and I will try to make it up to them.
I don't like people to judge me easily, thus I do not do it to the others. And i'm proud to say that I've adhere to this principle of mine.
I really don't like to be treated as a stupid person. There are people who by what I look like thinks that I somehow is lacking in the brain department. That I cannot think for myself, that I will hurt myself because of my stupidity.... do u know how it feels when someone tells u that, 'oh you are young and need protection'. Hey everyone I know, I'm a very logical and realistic thinker from young! I might look young and stupid to you but I am not! Read through my blog! Any part of it tells you that I'm actually stupid or (in softer version) naive?! Therefore I don't easily say that others are unless I really do understand their thinking. I have friends who thinks that bad things will never happen to them and if they can't get rich themselves they can just marry a rich and handsome guy, but they are not stupid. They just don't see or try not to see the reality side of the world, in hiding...

5. Only believes to things that you have seen with your own eyes, understand it and think through it.
Gossips is a very essential part of human life, it is a very traditional way of passing on informations and ideas. It is also a very poisonous activities if it is used to pass on untrue informations and belittle someone.
To make sure that the information one gets is true, one have to go and listen and understand the reasons behind the comments of other sources and also go and find out from the main subject abt it. Unless one understands everyone's pt of views then one can correctly define the right thing to believes in.
Therefore if I heard from someone that there are people who say something bad abt me behind my back, I accept it and try to think how they comes into that conclusion. I do not confront them as these are their ideas, and if there are others whom they talked to believes that then let them be. Truth will come out in the light someday.

6. If I say something I believes in, do it...don't just say it.
It might take me sometimes to really do something that I said that I will do, but I does do it in the end.
For example:- If I says that I believes one have to be honest, then I will try to stick to what I believes. I will try not lie, but keep quiet if I don't wanna tell the truth at the moment in time. As being honest is sometimes a cruel thing. White lies are sometimes gd but it is deem white lies because it does not benefit you but benefit the ones that hear it and the situation does not hurt the person as much until hate is against you if the lie is broken.

K, thats all I can recall for now... sigh...

Take a break...

One of the method that I love to use nowadays to take a break is to go and look at cute pictures drawn by online artists. Some of them are really talented... hehee... so here is one of the Artist that I found recently with her Original character works... very very cute and nice... this picture I find it particularly cute.


--by *celesse

Go click on the artist name to view all her great pictures.... she does commission work too... Love her original characters...hehee...

Time management

Looking through my organiser I realise how little free time I hav to excercise(haven been doin any for nearly a mth), to go out with my love(though I just met up with him on Mon), haven got time to really pack my room(it is never enough time to do that)....

Now with a new route opens for me, I need more time to put in efforts and make it work. haha... I'm venturing into the Financial industry, goin to be a Financial Adviser... or many people like to call it... insurance agent.

The aim is not just to try and sell life or medical insurance to people but to help people to attain their financial goals thru investments, term insurance, etcs... earning money or by helping people to take their financial risk off their shoulders. Good service is what I'm goin to provide, using that as a base to build my business... Yes, I'm taking it as a business.

To get myself out of the Rat race...first I must hav the money to do investments and stuffs....and this opportunity isn't one that I will give up on.

Thus more Time management is needed.

Short term goal (before the yr end), get all 6 licences...
Mid term goal (before March next yr), earn enough every mth to replace my current pay and go into full time.
Long term goal (2yrs later), soar in the business and have everyone I service happy.

To celebrate a mth into relationship....

This is the lovely white roses that he sent me a few days ago.

追寻。。。等待。。。理想。。。

“在不确定的时间中，我们到底在追寻什么呢？”


我一直在追逐着自己的梦想，寻找自己的目标。
我一直在等待着机会的出现，创造自己的未来。
机会出现了就要把握，因为那可能那是一生一次的机会。

A dummy's guide to proper courtship

Found this in a net by a fanfiction author Mizu-Tenshi. Just took the sub-title of each chapter of her fanfiction of the same name and put them down here for all to enjoy...hehee....

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Section One – Getting close to your target of affection
When courting any male or female, after identifying your target, the first step is to place yourself in a position in which you are close to said person. This can be achieved by A – Linking yourself together with chains, handcuffs or some kind of super strong adhesive. B – Becoming and official stalker/groupie of your target or C – Stranding yourself and your target on a deserted island hence making the only communication between yourself and said target possible.

Section Two - Conversations
When you really know someone, conversations become unnecessary, trivial things. However, being able to establish a meaningful conversation is one of the basics in courting someone. Conversations can be tricky to instigate and even harder to keep running without falling into awkward silence. The best ways to trigger a conversation is to wear an interesting T-shirt to comment about when things get rough.

Section Three - Getting to know your target of affection
The first step in courting any male/female is to know about your target of affection. In fact, before any proper courtship can begin, it is advisable to have some background information about your target. Any nasty misunderstandings that may sprout from not knowing enough about the male/female you are courting can result in arguments, bumps, bruises, fractures, broken bones, broken egos, loss of limbs and even death.

Section Four - Others around you
During the courting process, it's important to be mindful of the others around you, especially parents, relatives and potential rivals of the peron you are courting. Failure to obtain acceptance from each important person can make the coutring process long, arduous and hellish.

Section Five - Arguments
In any healthy relationship, arguments abound. One popular misconception is that perfect couples are perfect because they never fight. This is of course ridiculous as even the best of relationships wade through the same troubles as everyone else; the only difference is that they do not let it take them down.

Section six - Romantic gestures

Section seven is currently being worked on. It has flirting in it, perverted men, and bar brawls.

A dummy’s guide to proper courtship holds no responsibility for any incidents that may take place as a result of following this guide.

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Haven seems to finished yet...the author haven update...haha...but very funny...:P

五月天-恋爱ing

五月天出新歌了！！！ YA YA YA!

词：阿信 曲：阿信 

陪你熬夜 聊天到爆肝也没关系 
陪你逛街 逛成扁平足也没关系 
超感谢你 让我重生 整个o-r-z 
让我重新认识l o v e 
(l-o-v-e ! l-o-v-e! ) 

恋爱ing happy ing 
心情就像是 坐上一台喷射机 
恋爱ing改变ing 
改变了黄昏 黎明 有你 都心跳到不行 
(黄昏 黎明 整个都恋爱ing) 

你是空气 但是好闻胜过了空气 
你是阳光 但是也能照进半夜里 
水能载舟 也能煮粥 餵饱了生命 
你就是维他命l o v e 
(l-o-v-e ! l-o-v-e! ) 

未来某年某月某日某时某分某秒某人某地某种永远的心情 
不会忘记此刻l o v e 
l-o-v-e ! l-o-v-e! 
l-o-v-e ! l-o-v-e! 

感谢网友"xvhongbin"提供该曲目歌词

How I see MLM

To be true, only until yesterday that I really see the whole business side of MLM. All thnaks to a friend of mine who have been working fulltime in her MLM business for a yr now and making almost 5 figure every mth.

She told me that for an MLM business to work, the most impt thing is not the product they carrys but the business plans that they have in place to help you to make money. To be very successful in MLM, one should not sell anything to anyone at all....the most is to sell the business plans. She herself and the people in her group never sold anything to anyone, they only send them out as gifts. She also seriously told me tat the products are only the vessels you use to sell the business not the business itself. The business is to find people/partners that wants to make money, those people who isn't interested or are too lazy to make money will not succeed.

Thus from her coaching, my group's coaching and my own understanding...I came into a conclusion...

1. Gd MLM business allows downlines to make more money than their uplines... depending on each's efforts in the business.

2. To really make money in the business...the key is not selling but finding partners in the business. Never sell a single product, just the business plans.

3. Many people are wrongly educated by the number of bad MLM companies out there trying to sell, thus to really find partners willing in the business. We must convey the truth of MLM to them, of how it will help them to earn.

4. MLM is really a people helping people business, if u are no intend to help people to do the business...then success can never be urs as only by helping ur downlines then it is possible for you to climb up the MLM level.

5. Gd MLM business plans allow one to earn 5 digits money, top level in the business within 2 yrs if one really follow the plan closely.

So, if I tell you that the one I'm in now have fulfil all the above, anyone interested in joining me in the business and work as a group? Fulfil your dreams of doing whatever you want without worrying abt money? Retires in 5 yrs? Allow ur parents to retire? Help more others like you to acheive their dreams?

Lets not just dream, but make it into a goal and work towards it.

Oh ya, if any of you are already in MLM business....see if your company fulfil every of the above and really work towards ur goal.