Nice picture

One of my best buddy sent me this pic some time ago. Haha...quite a mood lifting picture. Thought I should share it over here. Bet it make you smile too.

We talk too much?

We as primates are social animals, we can't live alone and have no contacts with anybody. haha...I found it quite true, I never stay alone at all...everyday I interact with tons of people. The bus driver, the other passagers in the bus, my boss, my labmates, my friends etc thru physical contacts, thru emails, thru msn, thru phone. Neverending...

The most active part of our body is ur mind and ur mouth, as we think alot consciously or unconsciously and we also speak alot to pass on and get information. Recently I found another increasingly active part of our body...haha...fingers! To type this blog, to reply emails, to basically communicates with friends and strangers in the net. :P Not all informations are 2 ways but rather interesting to have it one way too. More like a journal.

Gossips are the most impt social behaviour we have. haha...most of the informations we got abt things happening ard us are thru gossiping. Most of us done it unconsciously while other enjoys it too much that they make it their pastime. Many people thinks gossiping is not a gd behaviour but not all gossiping are bad and many still does it without thinking....it is just what humans do.

Problems of relationships and my views on them

Why does a relationship have so many problems?? I think most of the time is because everyone wants it to be perfect and happen in their own way.

Don't know what happen recently that many of my friends and me started new relationship with man....and each has a different problem yet there is. Maybe love thinks that there is too many hate in this world and decided to become busier and start alot of relationships.

one thing I learnt from these relationships are that this generation of man is much much different from the past generations of them and so are women. Although the basic 'afriad of love, yet yearns of it' applied to all, how they handle it becomes very different.

There was a past saying that man are usually the first person who lights the fire of love and woman is the person that adds fuel to it to keep it burning....sometimes, it takes the woman so long to decide whether to add the fuel or not that the fire started by the man burns out and he is not interested in starting it again. I think now, the situation actually changed. The one starting the fire is the woman and the one taking a long time to add the fuel is the man.

Women are more independent now and don't think love is everything like the past generations. While men from the past never think love is everything until now, yet with women thinking the same way many men thought of it as a threat... threat as to now women will not try very hard to maintain a relationship, have their own life, does not see their man as their world and does not depend on their man as much now. Men are now more afriad to be dumped by women and many trys very hard to keep their relationship or are more afriad to start one as they are afriad to lost.

True? I don't know....just my observations of some men I know. Tell me if I'm wrong.

Constantine Review

Watched this movie? Not yet? I think you should watch it, but don't just watch it to compare it with Matrix.

It is nothing like Matrix, only linkage is the main actor is the same. There are people who told me that this movie is not gd, this movie does not feel much difference to Matrix and of course Keanu Reeves acts the same way he does in Matrix and it does not look much different in his character.
I think most of them think way this way because they are subconciously looking for Neo in the movie...not constantine.

What I think of this movie. As many other stories of fights between good and evil, there is no absolute gd nor there is evil. Many people just do things that is favourable to them (or at least they think is) no matter it is gd or bad in other people's eyes. John Constantine is one, he hunts half demons who crosses the balance because he hopes that by doing that he will be able to go to heaven. He was suppose to go to hell because he tried to kill himself once thou he did not die, taking one's own life is a sin.
Only when one does gd things with no strings attached is one that really does it out of pure gd heart.

There is also this message that I got from the movie...which I read from many other sources, sometimes the things that you think is gd for the others might not be truth. Some people does extreme things not because they are crazy but most of the times is it because they think it is the only way to achive bigger things....

爱自己

爱一个人是很奇妙的一件事。我喜欢很多人，但是我最爱的人还是我自己。

不论做什么事，我都不能让自己有一点委屈，可能很多人会认为我很自私，但是不论做什么事我都还没有迷失过我自己。可能我迷失过，但是时间常常摇醒了我。

我永远相信我是最爱我的人。